Failing already at your New Year resolutions? I’ve a piece published here on why that could be a blessing.
In short: willpower is a trap. It perpetuates the fight between the parts of you at odds with one another. But compassion and self-acceptance offer a more radical move, opening a path to transformation and liberty.
It’s a truth discovered by St Paul, along with all great spiritual teachers, in fact, though I don’t get into that part here.