Last night, we went to hear a performance of Mahler's massive Second Symphony, the 'Resurrection', in the enormous space of Westminster Cathedral. It was monumental, as it is supposed to be.

It turns out that Mahler left the instruction that after the first long movement, on death, there should be a five minute silence. He felt an audience might gain from such a long pause after the tremendous emotions of the movement. This instruction is usually ignored, though last night, the charismatic conductor Benjamin Zander, thought he would try it out.

In short, it didn't work. The woman next to me opened her handbag and unwrapped sweets when we were trying to sit still. The woman next to her started to read the Evening Standard. There were split seconds when the cathedral fell silent, but mostly people rustled and sought distractions. Zander brought the pause to a close after three minutes, not five.

I'm not sure why it didn't work. It felt different from the religious silence of a church service: it might have been that although the symphony is supposed to conjure up a similarly powerful experience, and although we were in a cathedral, the concert-going audience resisted the implications of that. But you'd have thought that if any section of the population could 'do' silence today, classical music lovers would be one.

Which then made me think that perhaps our culture has lost the art of being silent. And if you believe Blaise Pascal that matters: 'All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.'